Hi ladies - do you ever feel like you are becoming, or are already invisible in your home? At your workplace? Maybe it is because my "to do" list never seems to get done. Perhaps I am just having a "pity party," but lately I have been feeling invisible.
A friend of mine lent me the book "The Invisible Woman" by Nicole Johnson a while back.
(Sorry M.K., when I say "a while" there was actually snow on the ground!!) Anyway here are a couple paragraphs from this little gem of a book I thought I would share with you:
"Charlotte Fisher has two children, a pretty good marriage, and a very big prblem - she is invisible. Her husband and kids can see the clean socks in their drawers and the hot food on the table, but they cannot see
her. She's disappeared into the anonymity of being the wife, the mom, the butter getter, the milk pourer, the laundry washer, and all the other terms that describe a behind-the-scenes woman who holds life together."
In this book Nicole writes about the glories of the great cathedrals, how long they took to build, what superior craftsmen & artists these men were. One day a man visited a cathedral worksite and saw a worker carving a tiny bird into the
inside of a beam that would eventually be covered over by the stone roof. The man asked the worker why he was spending so much time and giving so much attention to something that no one would ever see. The builder never looked up. He never stopped carving as he replied, "Because God sees."
That last statement really struck a chord with me. If I am ever feeling invisible, I really am not...God always sees. He not only sees the work my hands do,
but how my heart is while I do them. Instead of feeling unhappy if my hubby doesn't notice his underwear drawer is again full or if my children forget to thank me for making a supper they like, I'll hang in there. The work we are doing does matter, takes time...like the building of a great cathedral. Perhaps the impact we have in our families and those around us will last alot longer than those brick & stone cathedrals...maybe even through generations and into eternity. I long to hear one day "Well done, good and faithful servant" from the One who really notices. Let's keep building together!